Widowed Moms!!! Let Me Guess…
You’re free falling, on auto pilot and feel like you’re stuck living out the aftermath of spousal loss… wondering after all the plans dreams and goals you made with your husband…”now what”
Your kids are struggling and you want to help them but have no idea how to help them navigate the one hurt you can't fix…
You have a Mountain of financial decisions to make, and no clear plan on how you’re going to support yourself and your children ( or save for college!)…
You got info OVERLOAD with the support groups, charities, checklists, and meetups. Everyone’s trying to get you “back in the game” on and offline …you just want to be in control again, and not need all this “help”… but where to start?!…
No – I’m not reading your mind. I WAS you.
I know you see other widows on and off line, all over the place with their feelings right now. Some are coping by moping, complaining,some are “thinking positive”, praying– some are dating, partying and traveling…but none of that is really HELPING you.
You even tried some or ALL of those things…but when it's over you go home to the same empty, lonely, restless feeling. Like a piece of YOU is missing.
Where do you fit in now, without your spouse… without your home base.
You don't fit here, do you?
You want to be HOME again. Create happiness… not just find temporary distractions.You want to create something SOLID for you AND your kids- that NO death or force or loss can take away ever again.
And you wonder what is NEXT for you? What does that even look like? Sounds like an expensive “life makeover” right?! You worry whether you can make ends meet for now-single-income-you + kids. Can you AFFORD to do anything other than survive?
But seriously… Who ARE you now?
Is it even possible to really LIVE your best life now, after all this, and if so … HOW? Is it possible to raise your kids to be happy and NORMAL – and not scarred for life – in the process?Where to even start?
You’re in the RIGHT place.
Author + Widow Coach = Bounceback Engineer
I'm Maya Tyler. I help widowed moms create, financially support, and SUCCESSFULLY execute a plan to bounce back from the overwhelm and overall “crazy” that happens after losing a spouse.
The overwhelm, the sudden single income… the loneliness and the hopelessness a widow goes through is MORE than just “hard”……doing it all as a mom, with kids who are hurting and you have no IDEA how help them cope when YOU are still trying to heal, finance, and juggle the whole new LIFE you've just been randomly handed? Some times it feels IMPOSSIBLE.
How Do I Know?
I became an instant single mom of 2 small boys, a 27 year-old-widow, and an anxiety disorder patient in about 45 minutes flat, one sunny Easter Sunday.
Suddenly I was no longer able to afford my home on my single income. I had to move back home with my parents, kids in tow, like a returned mail-order-bride. Even with that support system, I felt homeless without Jason. He WAS my home.
I became barely functional for my 18 month and 6 year old, very dependent on my parents. My oldest needed therapy and my youngest wailed for his dad. They both clearly were going through something I couldn't fix… which broke my heart every day.
Bills, benefits, and social security paperwork piled up.
I was battling anxiety and depression, serial dating, self medicating, counselor/doctor hopping .. and I’d be laid off from my job 6 months into my crazy upside down widow life.
I'll never forget the moment when I decided it was time to ACT, and turn off the “autopilot”.
It was the end of year 2 being a widow, and I’d finally settled on a counselor. She had said some things that were beginning to sink in. Things about controlling what you CAN, and what you REALLY have the power to create.
That’s when it HIT me. She had been trying to tell me this: My ship may have been WAY off course – but I still had the wheel.
Even in my “crazy” widow state – I STILL had control over SOME things. I could STILL, realistically change my life, my mindset, and rebuild my core. I could create a new, NEXT me – with a foundation to that NO DEATH could ever take away from me again.
But HOW? And where to START? And what about MONEY?
Before I could ask her, SHE died. Pancreatic Cancer. It took her very quickly. I was on my own.
I took what she said and went to work on a plan. She would not die in vain. Her words had changed me.
I developed a system that de-cluttered my crazy mom-life, gave me back my focus and clarity and created a NEW purpose. I even figured out how to support my children and save for college – and got all my crazy benefit/tax/mortgage mayhem resolved.
I Get You.
But TODAY? Today I am GLOWING. I didn't just get a new man and move on. I didn't just vent, pray, party, yoga or sleep it all away. I made a logical, simple, no-magic-or-surgery-required, MAP to rebuilding after loss.
…There IS a way forward. I'm living proof. There is hope, stability, and HAPPINESS (yeah I said it!) ahead. You deserve to You just need the MAP. So I made one.
Let's Do This.
I’m super excited to introduce to you…
The 60 Day online coaching program for widowed moms:
Go from barelysurviving to REBUILDING and THRIVING.
Move FORWARD, not just “ON”.
Direct access to me as your #NextYou coach —including:
- All my knowledge from personal experience and helping clients in wellness, widowhood, mental organization tactics, grief parenting and single parenting
- My 3A Bounce Back Method for how I went from a depressed, angry, broke and scared single mom to happy, financially thriving stable confident independent super mom.
- Get CLEAR on, and put to USE the REAL things that help you get and STAY happy, healing and moving forward.
Weekly hands on training to keep you accountable and help you dive deep into yourself and give life to that piece of you that's missing!
- Guided, Real world application Sessions
- Peer Grief Coaching/Motivational Coaching
- #NextYou Members Only PRIVATE Facebook group
- Lifetime access to course material and updates
A WHOLE financial advisory TEAM to help you get #AllTheWayTogether in ALL aspects money, tax jargon, bills, benefit, adoption courts – and even advocate for you in any financial matter where you don’t want to/can't speak to, figure out, or sign alone.
Get Confident that whatever your #NextYou future dreams are – you can SUPPORT them, and make them REAL.
Imagine If You Could Finally:
Take the broken pieces of your life right NOW and mend them into the BEST version of you possible – in your career, home life, and self confidence. #THRIVE.
Create financial stability to flourish in this new life; confident that you have what it takes to support your kids and all of your futures.
STOP self destructive behavior, and work through your Widow Fog, depression & anxiety
Be the parents your kids need and know how to provide the best support for them (at home and at school) through their grieving process while YOU HEAL TOO
“I tried everything I could think of to reinvent myself on my own. It was crazy, I ran across this ad on facebook – and I was skeptical at first ( because I tried self help books, grief conferences and women empowerment seminars and all that) but THIS course showed me what I really needed – which was WHERE to start, specifically in MY situation and how to keep myself motivated in the middle of REAL grief life.”
“Easy to follow, fun to create my own map – but the biggest value for me was the financial team! The referrals to her personal advisor, tax specialist, benefits pro, etc. REALLY helped me out. He did all the money stuff when he was alive – we were definitely not thinking about wills and social security and stuff.I was clueless to how to get all that together and squared away for me and the kids. For the money, this was an awesome resource I think ALL widows NEED. Thank You!!”.
“I went from depression and hopelessness to having a direction and actually working thru this grief thing. I am so proud of myself. I can't believe all that I’m doing and finishing every day now, with how I was feeling before. I look forward to my days. And that is a much bigger deal than I can express here. ”
Inside The Course…
You're Here For
YOU’RE DRIVEN TO BE MORE THAN WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU.
SOMETHING IN YOU WONT LET YOU JUST SURVIVE. YOU WANT TO THRIVE.
YOU WANT TO PROVE TO YOURSELF AND TEACH YOUR KIDS THAT LOSS DOESN'T HAVE TO BREAK YOU.
YOU KNOW HOW PRECIOUS LIFE, YOU’VE GOT A TON LEFT TO GIVE,AND YOU ARE DONE WASTING TIME STUCK “IN THE MESS”.
YOU KNOW YOUR KIDS DESERVE YOU AT YOUR BEST – AND YOU’RE READY TO DO WHATEVER THAT TAKES TO SUPPORT THEM IN THEIR GRIEF JOURNEYS – WHILE (NOT AFTER) YOU HEAL IN YOURS.